Is there anything worse than being single? Yeah. Yeah, there is. I’m sure you can think of some things including people in your lives who have struggled and suffered. Actually, you know what’s far worse than being single? Being so obsessed over being single that you ignore the love God is offering you right now. That’s just downright tragic. I wish I could say it’s all you ever need, and in some ways it is — but God knows some of us need more. Be patient, He just has some timing to work out.
So spend this time discovering the person you want to be. Enjoy your education, your career. Get your bank account healthy. Prepare strong friendships and strengthen your family ties. Read your bible. Spend this time enjoying the person you are. Have adventures. Enjoy your friends. Be confident. Be comfortable. Have fears. Trust God.
I want you to know I’m not writing this because I have all the answers. This series is as much for myself as it is anyone else. It’s a reminder that there are scientific things you can do to be happier, singleness is not meant to be hurtful, and you are not alone.